No one is owed access to anyone else's body, time, or attention. Every interaction — a conversation, a touch, anything further — requires clear, affirmative, ongoing consent from everyone involved. Consent to one thing is never consent to another thing. Consent can be withdrawn at any moment, for any reason, with no explanation owed. "No" is a complete sentence and must be respected immediately.
If you are ever unsure whether someone has consented, the answer is to ask — clearly, and again if circumstances change. Assuming consent because someone hasn't objected, is dressed a certain way, or has interacted with you before is never acceptable.
Private rooms are available for booking by members. Respect any signal or indicator on a room door that indicates it is occupied or in use — do not knock, enter, or attempt to engage without an explicit invitation. Full details on the room signaling system are available in your member portal after approval.
Come clean and well-groomed out of respect for everyone in the room. If you are feeling unwell or have a contagious illness, please stay home — your membership and standing are not affected by sitting out an event for health reasons.
If you sponsor a guest, you are responsible for their conduct for the duration of their visit. Guests are expected to follow this Code of Conduct in full, exactly as members are.
Any of the following will result in immediate removal from the premises and may result in permanent termination of membership without refund:
If something happens that concerns you — whether it involves you directly or something you witnessed — tell a staff member immediately, or reach out afterward to membership@exchangesocialclub.com. Reports are taken seriously, and members will never be penalized for reporting a genuine concern in good faith.